Here is my take on ”I trust my husband but I wouldn’t take chances and have him bathe my daughter” See the statement as an advice if your husband is one of;
Having drug/alcohol problem,
A wife beater,
Incest in his family,
Unemployed/depends on you,
You can’t proudly tell people his job (illegal activities),
He complains of sexual dissatisfaction,
Fond of watching porn,
Has mental disorder.
Above characteristics are from cases I’ve seen in Nigeria. Those that allow, ask the little girl “Show me how daddy baths you”.